Thinking back to late
January and the Developing Virtual Mentor (DVM) hui in Christchurch seems such
a long time ago. What an incredible journey it has been.
My previous experience as a
DP, my Masters in Educational Leadership, and my time leading has been a base
for development, and mentoring is adding a new layer, a new challenge, a new
dimension.
Only as I began to delve
into the DVM programme was I aware of the potential of mentoring in any
relationship. My world has really opened up as I have been privileged to grow
through being mentored and through mentoring. I must emphasise the value
of the mentoring I have received. It has
moved me beyond what I thought I was capable of, has challenged, supported and
enriched me and I am so much greater for the experience. I am in awe of the
resourcing and support that is in this VPLD programme and I am indebted to all
who have supported me, shown confidence in me, and been there for me.
Developing my skills of
mentoring have been an integral part of my development in my VPLD role, my
other professional roles and also in my personal life. I remember Manu
coining the phrase 'situational analyst' at our January hui, and this term has
been somewhat of a mantra for me. We weave gently in and out of roles,
challenges; times of quiet and noise, times of need and support, challenge and
provocation; times of despair and hope; times of trial and celebration.
Being aware of the situation, analysing the situation and responding
appropriately can take time; days, weeks, months, or can happen on the fly.
I want to acknowldege the extreme privilege of being part of a journey
that is growing me in my resilience and responsiveness.
This year has been a roller
coaster of emotions. Being aware of my
role, my journey, my privilege, has opened me to real personal growth. From times of feeling completely inqdequate, feeling
out of my depth, feeling supportive and involved, feeling a part of a
transformative journey; all adding to the journey that is my development as a
mentor.
I want to offer a debt of gratitude
to those I have had the pleasure of mentoring. Thank you for your time,
honesty, commitment and patience. A journey I hope we are all richer for!
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